Not wishing to make you feel sick dear reader but the story of myself and the Dandy is rather sweet and I would like to share it with you.
A few years ago I found myself as a singleton (don't worry I'm not going to go all Bridget Jones here) and after a little while I thought I would give the internet dating thing a go. Some of you may have some experience with online dating sites so when I say that some are like meat markets, I'm sure you won't disagree. However a few of my friends recommended eHarmony, as it is a bit more serious and a place where you are least likely to find a man who just wants to meet up to smell your shoes!!
eHarmony prides itself on 'getting to know you' first before finding you matches, so after signing up I was faced with A LOT of questions to complete (for a good reason I must add), but after a few cups of tea it was done and all my potential suitors were being selected.
Now I should say at this point I was not looking for a boyfriend, I think my words were 'I think a few dates with a few nice chaps would be great fun, and you never know what might happen....'
eHarmony are very hand-holding through the initial process of contacting your matches online. There is a 'wink' button and a series of ice breaker questions which you can skip if you want to start communication immediately.
One evening a picture of a very happy looking gentleman popped up in my matches and after a few emails the fate was sealed. Our first date was brilliant and on our second I don't think I laughed so much before. A few dates turned into something rather special and soon we had moved in together.
At the start of 2013 we had a little weekend break in Lyme Regis on the Dorset coastline (if you have never been here then you must, it's beautiful). On a rather chilly Sunday afternoon we did what all good tourists to the area do and went fossil hunting. During this hunt we discovered there had been a landslip which caused an old Victorian landfill site to plunge onto the beach where we were walking. Cue fossil and now treasure hunting to boot. The Dandy, being rather eagle-eyed, spotted some old battered and broken piece of pendant which had a pretty stone on it and, liking the shiny thing, put it in his pocket with the rest of the fossils.
So it turned out that this stone was actually a small sapphire dating back to 1830's which was rather a lovely find indeed.
Fast forward to Christmas 2013 and the Dandy and I decided a little pre-crimbo break was in order, so we packed our bags and headed to lovely London for a bit of sight seeing and festive merriment. The Dandy, being a most wonderful boyfriend, arranged a surprise dinner at Simpson's in the Strand, which was incredible. The roast beef was exquisite.
After dinner an evening stroll was suggested, so off we trotted down Embankment, across Westminster bridge, past the Houses of Parliament, past Downing Street, past the Cenotaph; we had been walking for over an hour and I was in silly heels so my feet were killing me! As we were walking down the Mall, I was starting to flag somewhat. However, with words of encouragement and 'we are nearly there' we ended up outside Buckingham Palace (one of my favourite places). After looking at the beautiful building, I turned to see the Dandy down on one knee with a box holding a ring! The ring in question had as its centre stone the sapphire he found on the beach in Lyme Regis. He said something at this point, but I was so overwhelmed I can't remember what it was; all I said was YES!
The Dandy and I at the start of our 'engagement evening'
So thank you eHarmony for matching us up and thank you to Lyme Regis fossil folk for taking us that route and resulting in me having a rather special engagement ring . We will see you again in Spring 2015 when we get married down there.
Some important links here
Lyme Regis museum who arrange the fossil hunts
http://www.lymeregismuseum.co.uk/whats-on/fossil-walks
Not a bad place for dinner
http://www.simpsonsinthestrand.co.uk
Evan, who made my perfectly beautiful engagement ring
http://www.chic-bijoux.co.uk/
My ultimate bling!